Friday, February 12, 2010

7 Quick Takes: February 12, 2010 (Vol. 29)

~ 1 ~

I still haven't gotten caught up from Blissdom 2010.  I promise that it is my intention to write about it very, very soon.  But, here is a sneak peek of my Blissdom experience (one of the few pictures I got)...
 
That's me, George Duran (formerly of Food Network's Ham on the Street and now on TLC with Ultimate Cake Off), and Holly from Saving For Eight (who is super sweet and was a pleasure to meet).

~ 2 ~

In my quest to get caught up on life after Blissdom, I was almost relieved to have not one but two snow days this week.  I have a strong stance on taking snow days in our homeschool, although by the second day, I did ask the kids if they wanted to go ahead and do school anyway.  I was not surprised to get an immediate, "No," from them.

~ 3 ~

In all the busyness of getting ready to go out of town, being out of town, and then trying to get caught back up, I have over 800 entries waiting to be read in my Google Reader.  *gulp*
Have any great tips for working through it more quickly (short of just hitting "mark all as read")?

~ 4 ~
I have a confession to make.  I am 33 years old, and I bought my first pair of high heel shoes about two weeks ago, per Eric's request, after we went through and got rid of about 1/3 of the clothes in my closet.  They are about 2.5 inch heels, and that allows me to wear them and be a lot closer to looking Eric right in the eye.  Very fun. 

And then, after wearing them to church one evening, along with a dark pair of flaired jeans, a black blazer, and a red top, I got several compliments (including someone who noticed that I had lost some weight).  This was definitely a sign that we were right in trying to cull some of the things out of my closet and find better choices of what to wear.

~ 5 ~

Are you a Catholic homeschooler or Catholic Mom of children who are still at home?  Would you be willing to check out a cool resource that we've been working on?  If so, drop me an email.
~ 6 ~

I'll never be one of those women that can go to the grocery store and get $400 worth of groceries for $1.85.  It's just not going to happen.  But, I was thrilled this week to go to Kroger and get $300 worth of groceries for $200.  WooHoo!

Between some great coupons, Kroger plus card sales, and then a deal they were having where you got $5 off for every 10 items you bought from a certain list of items, I saved us $94 on our grocery bill. 

But, don't feel bad if you're not a great grocery shopper -- I'll spend way too much money next time I go, I'm sure.  So, it will all even out in the end.

~ 7 ~

A tiny little Blissdom take away message that really spoke to me (about why people come to your blog)...
They come to hear your voice.


 

 
 
 
 
This post is linked to 7 Quick Takes and Weekly Wrap Up.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Easy Visual Reminder for Sorting Similarly Sized Kids Clothes




If you have children that are the same gender that are in similarly sized clothes, you probably have had the problem that we have run into here from time to time.  There would be a shirt with some very non-specific size like "medium" or there would be a 8/10 sized shirt that ran either much smaller or much bigger than the size would indicate, and then we'd forget who the shirt belonged to.  This got especially confusing because shirts that we would associate with Noah would become Jack's shirt after Noah grew out of it.

So, one day I went through all of the boys' shirts and put a single dot on the tags of Noah's shirts.  On Jack's, I put two dots.  And, now when Noah outgrows a shirt, I just add another dot to the tag and it's easy to remember that it's now Jack's shirt.

Of course, while my kids love tagless shirts, it has thrown me for a loop on how to keep up with them with dots.  On some of them, I've just done it very small on the back of the shirt on the collar area (depending on the shirt).

So, for poor Jack, this means that hand-me-downs will always be plentiful and easily identified.  Sorry Jack, but my checkbook appreciates it.







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Friday, September 18, 2009

7 Quick Takes: September 18th (Vol. 16)

~ 1 ~


I was so nervous that after all of the hard work we had put into it that it wouldn't be able to be tuned at all.  Honestly, I asked her to just get it "as close to tuned as possible."  The tuner said she would tune it, and then we could just make an appointment for 4 - 6 weeks for her to tune it again.

Except, then she actually started to tune it and told me it was in much better shape than she thought it would be from what I had told her about it.  As a matter of fact, she ended up telling me that we can probably just have it tuned twice this year, and then move to yearly after that.  I was beyond thrilled!

~ 2 ~

 Eric and I watched the movie Maxed Out about a week ago.  It was both maddening and sickening.  It was also a very interesting to watch knowing the state of the economy now.

Anyone else watched it before?  What did you think?

~ 3 ~

I am really considering instituting a "family night" around our house.  I don't know what it would consist of or when it would be, but I just think it might be a really nice idea.

We tried to do a game night when the kids were very little (and Molly wasn't even around yet), but that was short lived.  Now that everyone is older, I think it might be really nice to start up again.  I know that every time we bring out some game or activity for the whole family to do together, the kids get so excited.  Probably a sign we need to do it more often, huh?

~ 4 ~

I got to go to a consignment sale this week, and paid $69.50 for 27 pieces of clothing  (well, some were two piece sets, but I'm counting those as one) and two toys.

Rock on!


~ 5 ~

 So, how is it that Christmas is only about three months away?

I have purchased the big gift for one of the kids and also been working on some handmade gifts.  (Plus, I may know the big gift for the other two kids, but am not sure about one of them.)  But, otherwise, I'm unprepared.  I really think I need to start buying some things every month now, so that I can just pay cash for everything.

You know, especially after watching Maxed Out.

~ 6 ~

How is it possible that I have been so busy but have so little to say?

I really had to think very hard about what to write for my 7 Quick Takes this week, yet I feel like I have been crazy busy.  I think that might indicate that I am living the same day over and over again.

Do you ever get so busy, but yet feel like you aren't really doing anything?


~ 7 ~

One thing that has actually been really wonderful lately is that I have had a couple of opportunities to get together with some of my gal pals.  There is just something about sitting in a restaurant for three hours just talking to friends.

While I think family night is going to be really important, I have to say that I think that I need to get together for girls' night out a little more often too. 



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Photos by: heart cup -- Bob.Fornal, Christmas gift -- stephbond

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Little Girls with Hats and Scarves


I'm not sure why I love to see it so much, but there is something so sweet to me about little girls in hats or with scarves on.

Really...who knows why? But, isn't she sweet?


And, I figure if it makes me smile every time I see it, it must certainly qualify as one of the finer things in life.



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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

I Am Finally (Kind of) Knitting (aka Loom Knitting is Fun and Easy)

I have really been wanting to learn how to knit. Eric and the kids were nice enough to let me pick out a few things from Amazon.com for my birthday in December, and one thing I got was The Complete Beginner's Guide to Knitting that people were just raving about. (That's also when I got the fabulous Stitch-It Kit that helped me learn to embroider for the first time.)


Anyway, I have to admit -- I haven't opened the DVD yet. But, after months of having a set of Knifty Knitter looms, I finally just broke down and opened the package on Monday evening of this week. Molly was thrilled, since she has been asking me to make her a hat ever since I bought the loom set.


Having never done any knitting (or a loom or otherwise), I was thrilled to put in only a couple of hours, and to end up with a cutie hat that Molly was thrilled with. I also realized that this would be a great activity for older kids, who could easily master the basic loom use after being shown how to do it.


I still definitely want to learn to knit with needles at some point (maybe during the summer when we have more free time), but for now, I'm thrilled to be able to do some loom knitting until then. I have to admit, the whole time I was making the hat, I kept smiling as I watched the hat grow.


I am always thankful when I get to tackle a project that I have been wanting to do for a while, especially when it is something fun!


I'm also thankful that I have a husband who will help me figure out written directions (I'm such a visual learner!), and thankful also for that little girl with a goofy preschool forced grin, because she was so pleased with my homemade hat.


This post was submitted for the following weekly memes: I Am Blissfully Domestic, Tackle It Tuesday, and Gratituesday.


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Monday, March 30, 2009

Question and Answer: The Snuggie


A few weeks ago, I posted a Wordless Wednesday of this picture of Noah in his Snuggie. I got a few questions about the Snuggie, and frankly, I didn't know how to answer them.

You see, Noah kept begging for a Snuggie and then finally used his own money to buy one. So, since it is his, I didn't really have the first hand experience with it to answer your questions.

So, I asked Noah (my nine year old son with Asperger's Syndrome, who loves infomericals) if I could get him to answer the questions about the Snuggie that readers had left in the comments. He was thrilled to be able to help.

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They seem like they would stick to your clothing in an odd fashion and trip you. So how is it really?


Oh, no no no. Not at all. It may seem like it, but it's really not.


Sometimes it does slip down on your feet a bit, which does make it a little difficult to walk. It's probably better for adults, since I'm only nine years old.



Do those things really work?



Of course! It reaches you from head to toe, and it's big enough to fit any size. And, also, it comes with a light that you can clip on to your books and read with.


It was definitely worth the money!



I so want one of these!!!!!!!! Do you love yours???????



Yes, very much!



(Noah also adds that, "any time anyone has a question about the Snuggie -- any time, anywhere, I can help.")




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Friday, March 13, 2009

Small Successes (aka Hello Dr. Ross)


I have been feeling so frazzled lately. It's like I just can't keep up! But, here were three bright spots for today:

1. I got to go to my favorite twice a year consignment sale. I got a big pile of clothes (I'll have to post what I got later), as well as a few toys/games. I spent $70.50! WooHoo! (Plus I saw people buying things I had taken in to consign. Double WooHoo!)

2. I think I finally finished the upgrade of the Catholic Mothers Online blog to a new design!

3. I haven't watched ER in years, but have watched the last few episodes with Dr. John Carter (Noah Wyle) back on them. Oh man, oh man. It's not really a success on my part, but I did cheer like it was my success when George Clooney (as Dr. Ross) showed up on the show tonight. Oh yeah!


Go celebrate three of your small successes from the day at Faith and Family Live!

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Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The Snuggie (Wordless Wednesday)


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Saturday, February 28, 2009

Choosing and Simplifying Your Wardrobe

Now, before I start, let me say that I am no fashion maven. Heck, I am likely even a fashion flunkie.

But, I am a fashion flunkie who has taken notes, and managed to pick up some tips that even I can use.


First tip (and this is one I actually *do* use) and can say it is quite nice. You need to find a neutral color that works for you. Black, dark navy, brown, cream, grey, the like. Find one that you think compliments you well, and declare that to be YOUR neutral color.


Okay, hang on -- I lied. I don't use this very well, as I have chosen both black and brown. So sue me. Black and brown are pretty much my staples for my wardrobe. Okay, so we've established that I'm a cheater. So be it.


Anyway, here are some great pieces to have in your wardrobe in YOUR neurtral (I actually do have several of these in both of my neutrals, and know that this is an area to keep working on):


  • 1 jacket (try on several styles and lengths to see what works best for your shape)
  • 2 pairs of pants (it's best to have them in different cuts/styles)
  • 1 skirt (again -- go for your most flattering length)
  • 2 - 3 knit tops (yeah, yeah -- like before, try to go with different styles on these)
  • 1 dress


    And, then this was an idea that I heard elsewhere and embraced (kind of, anyway) -- then try to find two colors that compliment you well, and that compliment each other when worn together. Make these your colors, and it will simplify your shopping.


    For instance, I know when I go shopping, I can completely not even look at things that aren't in the colors that I buy. I don't even have to browse through anything red, yellow, or orange. Not even for a second. (Well -- except I think I will buy red Crocs eventually, but that doesn't really count.)


    I know that when I am shopping, I'm basically looking for earthy colors. I am keeping my eye out basically only for black, brown, purple (on the deeper side of the color -- sometimes almost jewel colored), and then green (usually more along the lines of an earthy green/olive green).


    I do have to admit, I don't wear purple and green together, so it doesn't fit the rule. But, I get to cheat again because of having a couple of neutral colors, right? (Plus, I do cheat in that, as long as the tones are right, I wear black and brown clothes together -- like a cute second hand brown jacket that looks good with a black shirt underneath, and then the black jacket I got for Christmas that looks good with a particular brown shirt I have.)


    From your coordinating colors, I am told that it is good to have:

  • 1 jacket
  • 1 sweater
  • 1 pair of pants
  • 3 - 4 knit tops


    It's also good to have a white shirt, or in my case, a couple, since I am very hard on shirts. (I swear it's not a meal if I haven't dropped food on myself.)


    When you shop like this and have a wardrobe like this, then you don't need too many pieces to have a large amount of outfit choices to choose from.


    Oh...and if your shoe collection is like mine that consists mainly of tennis shoes and Crocs, make sure you pick up at least a few pairs of shoes that range from dressy to dress casual. Even some shoes that make jeans look better than just throwing on some tennis shoes.

  • And honestly, though I mostly wear my Crocs, I *do* actually have probably about 10 pairs of shoes, including a few different types of sandals, some Mary Jane type of shoes, some chunky dress shoes, flats, etc. Many of them I rarely wear, but they are all ones that I grab from time to time.


    It may not be a surprise to share that I believe apart from Crocs and tennis shoes, ever pair of shoes I own are either brown or black.


    I suppose I have put the cart before the horse here. I think I should have talked about clearing out your closet first, in order to take stock of what is right for you, and what needs to go.


    Perhaps another time.

    This was originally posted on February 19, 2008.


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    Saturday, December 27, 2008

    Many Little Links: The Christmas Edition

    Christmas found me taking some unplanned time off from blogging. It was a nice little break, although we certainly kept very busy.

    I spent quite a bit of time on the 23rd and 24th finishing up baking for my last set of homemade Christmas goodie baskets.

    We then attended a Christmas Vigil Mass. Let me just say -- it's not a good idea to show up five minutes before the Mass starts. It was packed, and we lost Eric for about 3/4 of the Mass. The kids and I sat on the steps that went up to the choir loft. It made us appreciate having a pew at Mass tonight, that's for sure!

    We spent Christmas Eve with my family at my parents' house. It was such a yummy dinner, and we all ate and ate! Eric also received his big hit of a gift -- an Air Hogs helicopter.

    On Christmas Day, we traveled a little over an hour away to Eric's sister's new house for lunch and presents. We had a nice visit, and I could tell that his sister was pleased to get a chance to host Christmas this year. We were pleased that not only did we get to visit there, but one of my sisters lives less than four miles away from her (and her husband)! So, we also got to go visit there for about an hour.

    The day after Christmas found us cleaning the house from top to bottom. So, needless to say, we're beat! So, while I put up my feet, you can visit some links that I enjoyed this week:

    Arts and Crafts

    Christmas Satchets -- Chasing Cheerios

    Easy Fabric Gift Bags -- The Happy Housewife

    Handmade at Home: Keeping the Skills Alive -- Simple Mom (definitely check this one out!)

    Make a Christmas Button Wreath -- Dollar Store Crafts (posted at Blissfully Domestic - Blissful Kids)

    Finances

    Establish a Christmas Savings Fund for Next Year -- Frugal Dad

    Miscellaneous:

    What is Black Tie? (a guide to what is acceptable attire at different events) -- KathyFriend.com (posted at Blissfully Domestic - Blissful Style)


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    Sunday, October 19, 2008

    Many Little Links: The Laundry Edition

    I'm not really sure how, but laundry just multiplies in the laundry room. It seems like I do a ton, and then I turn around and there is a full hamper again.

    Honestly though -- things have been much better since we splurged with our economic stimulus check and redid our laundry room, which included a front loading washer and dryer. I was nervous about spending so much money, but it was so worth it!

    So, while I work on my laundry, you can enjoy some links of items that I have enjoyed this past week:


    Arts & Crafts:

    Friday Find: Stubby Pencil Studio -- Soule Mama


    Nurturing Your Kids' Creativity and Independence with an Art Box -- Kiddio


    DIY I Spy Picture Story -- Julie K in Taiwan


    Food & Recipes:


    Halloween Party: Treats and Sweets -- The Crafty Crow


    Trick or Treats -- Bakerella


    Pumpkin Pie Bars -- Joy the Baker


    Kool Mandrain Orange Cupcakes -- Sycamore Stirrings


    Preparing for Christmas Baking Season -- A Simple Walk

    Decorating (Your Self & Your House):

    Decorating Children's Rooms in Favorite Picture Books -- Barefoot Mama

    10 Pieces Every Mom Needs in Her Wardrobe -- Miss Britt

    What's Wrong With This Picture? -- Daily Painting

    DIY: Dining Room Storage -- The Inspired Room

    Learning Ideas & Schooling:

    Around the World Day 2008 -- Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers

    30 Simple Ways to Get Your Child Ready to Read -- On Simplicity

    Talking About the Election With Young Kids [three simple tips] -- CityMama

    What I Wish I'd Known -- Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers

    Kinderweek ~ Leaves and the Letter F -- Sun and Candlelight

    50 States Notebook -- One Child Policy Homeschool


    Humor:


    Sarah Palin on Saturday Night Live (video) -- Bettnett.com


    Blogging:


    Negative Blog Comments: To Respond or Not -- Blissfully Domestic

    21 Ways to Make Your Blog or Website Sticky -- ProBlogger

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    Friday, September 19, 2008

    $119.25 spent for 51 items (aka Consignment Sales Rock!)

    If you don't know about any children's clothing consigment sales in your area, this is the time when it is worth asking everyone you know if they've heard about any. (Depending on how large the sales are, they are even often worth a drive.)

    I was just able to go to an area children's clothing cosignment sale. I was able to shop on the consignors night, because I take clothes from my kids there.

    Usually I end up making just a little less than I spend, which always thrills me. Of course, I would love to make as much or more than I spend. I actually do, technically, usually make more than I spend. But, when the sponsoring organization takes out $5 for fees and then another 30% of the sales, I typically make just under what I spent.

    So, here was my haul for the sale this season (fall/winter items only, as they have a spring/summer sale later):

    Molly:

    - 21 shirts (some will be big this year, and should also fit next year)

    - 6 dresses (including at least one very pretty Christmas dress)

    -(no pants, because she has a ton of pants as hand-me-downs)

    Jack & Noah (easier to just count them up together):

    - 10 shirts

    - 2 pairs of pants

    I was pleased with this, because it is more than I have ever been able to get before for the boys. The boys clothes are not as plentiful, particularly when you hit about a size six or above. So, when I'm looking for 8's and 12's, it can be very hit and miss.

    New nephew (my Mom wanted me to pick up things for her for my nephew that will be born in January):

    - 7 outfits (I could have bought WAY more, but it was hard when I was trying to describe things to her on the phone)

    Toys:

    - 2 stuffed animals (Like I need any more stuffed animals in this house! But, there was a regular sized Care Bear for $1 and a stuffed My Little Pony for $.50, and I knew Molly would love both)

    - 1 My Little Pony Ice Cream Truck with all accessories and one My Little Pony with it

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    Monday, September 1, 2008

    Geting Your Crocs Squeaky Clean

    Yeah, yeah, I know -- some people don't like Crocs. Us though -- we're a Croc family.

    Wearing Crocs so often, though, does mean that our Crocs get dirty sometimes. So, we hose them down or scrub them, and then all's good for a while.

    This past week, it just seemed like everyone's Crocs were dirty. I loved this idea from Chasing Cheerios for setting up a Croc Wash, basically. But, I was feeling lazy.

    Oh, and then there is the fact that there were nine pairs of Crocs to be washed as well. This, of course, means that there were 18 individual shoes. I just didn't think my kids had it in them.

    I kept thinking, "Could I just throw them in the washing machine?" I searched the Internet, and it seemed that this was something that other people were doing, though the actual Crocs company advised against it, as well as some people who talked about it online.

    I also found information about washing them in the dishwasher with no heat. If anyone tries it out, more power to you. Personally, I didn't like the idea of all of our dirty shoes in the dishwasher. Call me old fashion like that.

    A smart person, I suspect, would have checked the washing machine idea on one pair of Crocs, and chance only ruining $30 worth of shoes instead of $270 worth of shoes all at once. I, apparently, am not a smart person. I figured it would work, and didn't want to find out it worked and then run another load for the other eight pairs.

    I threw all nine pairs of Crocs into our front loading washing machine. I put it on the normal cycle, but on the cold/cold setting (which is what I normally do our "normal" cycle on anyway, though it defaults to warm/cold). I put it on high soil level, but dropped down the spin speed to "medium," which was as low as it would allow me to do for that type of wash cycle. I also added in a couple of towels, just because my Mom thought it was a good idea, and it sounded reasonable to me too.

    And, then the fun began! We got to watch as our Crocs went this way and that. It was also a treat for our ears, as we listened to the occasional squeak as one Croc would be pushed against the front window of the washer.

    Those squeaks were not just for show! When the load was done, our Crocs were, in fact, squeaky clean. And, I was glad that because of my risk taking, there was not another load of Crocs waiting to be washed.

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    Thursday, June 19, 2008

    13 Things We're Doing To Live a Little Greener (TT #18)



    Thirteen Things We're Doing To Live a Little Greener

    If you read my list last week of 13 Things We're Doing to Try to Save a Little Money, you'll see some overlap on these lists. Isn't it funny how sometimes living a life that is greener also saves money?


    1. We started a composting bin. (We made our own composting bin from a trash can to save some money.)

    2. We have a garden to grow some of our own produce.

    3. When we got our economic stimulus check, we used it all to redo our laundry room. The vast expense of this was to get rid of our energy inefficient laundry appliance, and we bought brand new energy star efficient laundry appliances. (I didn't realize how very inefficient they were until I started doing laundry in the new machines. Drying happens SO much faster now, and I can see that we are using so much less water and soap when washing.)

    4. We have been trying to keep the thermostat set a little higher this summer so far. I can remember when we would keep the A/C set at 73 all summer long. This year, we haven't set it lower than 74, but sometimes as high as 77. (Sorry -- I saw someone saying 80 not too long ago, and I just can't do that.)

    5. We write most family notes to one another (like phone messages, etc.) on a dry erase board instead of using post-it notes or paper. (If we use paper, we try to use scrap paper.)

    6. We buy a lot of our clothes second hand instead of buying brand new. (We actually bought a bunch of play dress up clothes for our kids second hand too!)

    7. We use re-usable shopping bags when shopping.

    8. We empty our dehumdifier onto our trees or vegetable garden when it is full, instead of just tossing down the drain.

    9. We recycle through our trash company. Of course, I remember when it paid money to recycle, but we pay an extra $5.00/month to be able to do it. Oh well...it's worth it!

    10. We try (the emphasis is on "try") to eat lots of meals at home. Have you seen the amount of trash that comes from a family of five running through a drive through? It's just crazy!

    11. My laptop and external hard drive are on a power strip. At night, when I turn it all off, I am able to really turn it *completely* off by switching off the power strip.

    12. We try to borrow as many things from the library (and Netflix) as we can, rather than to fill our house with more books, DVDs, and CDs. Don't get me wrong -- we love all those things, but we know we need to not just have tons of those sitting around.

    13. I love buying re-purposed things, especially on Etsy! The purse I use it re-purposed from an old skirt! I get comments on it all the time! And I got these fabulous magnets that were made from Starbucks lids.

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    Wednesday, June 11, 2008

    Thirteen Ways We're Trying to Save Money (TT #17)





    Thirteen Ways We're Trying to Save Money
    Some of these are just small ways, and some of them are kind of unconventional ways to "save" money, but here goes the list...


    1. We have gone to mostly having our thermostat set at 75 degrees for the air conditioning. We normally were keeping it at 72 or 73 last year.

    2. We started giving our boys each an allowance of half their age per week. (So, the six year old gets $3.00.) After starting that, they pretty much buy their own toys/games that they really want. It has given them a whole new perspective on what they *really* want, and it saves us because we tended to be pushovers about buying things for them before they had their own money.

    3. We have invested money over the previous two years in putting together a raised bed garden, and then putting an addition onto it. This year, our only money spent was to buy the vegetables, some new fencing, and pots/potting soil for a few things. Still -- all that being said, we have had an abundance of fresh vegetables (and strawberries) in years past. Already this year, we have had tons of lettuce, spinach, and strawberries. By the end of the summer, we will have grown a whole lot more food for the money, plus we can feel good about having grown our own food.

    4. Theoretically, keeping track of a budget should save us some money. I think that it does help to see it in "print" when we are spendng too much in one area.

    5. Eric and I tend to give each other things for holidays that involve gifts that we really would have went out to buy anyway. For example, he and the kids had the garden plants be my Mother's Day present. We would have bought them anyway, of course. Likewise, we'll be buying a grill that will be for "Father's Day," but we would have bought it anyway.

    6. Speaking of the garden one more time, sometimes a garden creates an overabundance of items. So, the last couple of years, we have saved money in buying things for the garden (additions, as well as plants, etc.) by having my parents pay for half of those expenses. In return, we provide them with all the veggies they want. This is good for us because it saves us money, and good because we might end up having some things go to waste otherwise.

    7. Meal planning saves a lot of money over eating meals out often, or even over stopping at the grocery store several times a week! It helps us, though we admittedly still eat too much from out.

    8. Oh, and as far as the grocery store goes, I try to send Eric when I have only a couple of things to buy. Whereas I end up picking up lots of extras when I run to the grocery store, Eric is more apt to buy exactly what I have asked for (if he can find it!), and nothing else.

    9. We tend to buy a lot of our clothes (for us and for the kids) second hand. As the kids get older, it might be a little harder, but right now, we have an excellent consignment sale twice a year in the area that I go to, as well as a Once Upon a Child. We also have a nice second hand shop for women in the area, and then Eric has done well a couple of times at Goodwill for clothes for work. We still, of course, buy new clothes, but it has saved us a lot in what we haven't had to buy new.

    10. We used to buy tons of books. I am a sucker for books, and so is Eric. We now live not too far from a very nice library (from which we can also request movies through inter-branch loan), and we definitely utilize it a lot! Not only does it save us from buying books, but we also tend to borrow about five kids DVDs every time we go. Occasionally, we still find books that we love and want to buy (usually after we have rented them, to be sure, first) and sometimes the kids fall in love with a movie that we have borrowed, and so we buy it. But, the number of books and movies we actually buy now is only a small portion of what we used to buy.

    11. We spend about $10 per month to be members of Netflix with their one movie out at a time plan (unlimited per month). We only get movies for us (since we get movies for the kids through the library), and since turn around time has us having a new movie in our hands just about three days after mailing the last one in, it's plenty for us to have only one movie at a time. We used to be HORRIBLE with late fees at the rental place, so Netflix really has saved us a lot of money. Now we just pay for movies that we want to have, not late fees because we couldn't be bothered to take it back.

    12. I own an iPod because I am a huge music lover. I definitely feel it saves me money too, because I used to go out and buy all kinds of CDs. If I really loved something, I went out and bought the CD if we had some extra money, even if I only loved a song or two on the CD. Now, instead of buying that $15 CD for two songs, I pay about $1.98 on iTunes and just buy those two songs.

    13. We own both a minivan and a compact car. We cannot fit all of our family in the compact car at this time, since two kids are still in car seats/booster seats. However, because the compact car gets better gas mileage, it has been a decision on our part to just figure out logistics when needed and save money over having two larger vehicles. We use the compact car for when each of us goes to work (since I only work a few hours a week, and only tend to do that when Eric is home). It would be a lot easier for us if we had two vehicles that were larger, but it saves us a lot of money to have the economy car. (Perhaps, it would save us even more money if we hadn't just had to spend $400.00 to replace the starter on it this week, but what can you do? It's 9 years old, so those kinds of things happening are expected, but since they rarely happen, it's still a savings to keep the vehicle.)


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    Wednesday, June 4, 2008

    Recycling Your Old Crocs

    I just saw the link to this organization on Blissfully Domestic, and had to share it. I know, some people think Crocs are ugly, but we love them in our household. Every member of the family has at least one pair. And some members of the family have more than their fair share.

    Anyway, the organization SolesUnited recycles old Crocs that have been donated and makes them into new Crocs for people in parts of the world where most people don't even have shoes.

    There is a nice (and short) movie on the right hand side if you visit the site that explains about what they do. It was really nice, and is less than two minutes.

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    Tuesday, May 27, 2008

    WFMW: Finding Great Deals for The Dress Up Box

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    My kids are big fans of getting dressed up to play. I have done a variety of things to help them have a good variety of things to dress up in. This weekend, we had our biggest increase in our dress up box, and actually ended up moving our dress up box from an overflowing large rubbermaid container into our living room hope chest instead.

    Anyway, so, for about the price of a Cinderella set that I saw on Amazon.com (around $30), which included a two piece dress, plastic shoes, a crown, and a wand, we went to Goodwill instead.

    We walked out with the following items for our dress up box: 2 clip on ties, 2 pairs of sunglasses, 4 vests (two girls vest and two mens vests -- one is faux leather), a ton of scarves (a bunch of head-type scarves like Molly is wearing in the picture and then two winter scarf types of scarves), and a very over the top gold shiny purse. (Molly kept saying, "Look, Mom! I'm Mary!!!")

    The kids thought they had hit a goldmine! And, I loved that we were able to add so many cool things to our dress up stuff.

    Other ways we have added to our dress up box before: clearance dress up stuff, Christmas gifts, after Halloween sales (we got a cowgirl multi piece set that was originally $20.00 for $2.00, since it was 90% off), we have made some of our own things (like tutus), Target's 1-spot, etc.

    Having a dress up box is such a fun thing for the kids, and it really spurs their creativity. Heck, even Noah who wants nothing to do with dressing up was thrilled after our Goodwill trip! He grabbed everything when we walked in and ran in his room. Then, he came out and started singing a song inviting people to come and buy things in his shop.

    If you're starting out a dress up box or just adding to a current one, be sure to check out Goodwill for some great deals! Plus, the great thing about buying at Goodwill is that this is a "greener" choice for dress up clothes than running out to the store and buying a set of play dress up clothes.

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    Tuesday, May 20, 2008

    Using Outgrown Girls Dresses (WFMW)


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    I think that I had read this tip a long time ago in a magazine or the like, and apparently filed it away in my brain to be brought back this year. It is one that we are using all the time, and it has been working wonderfully for us.

    Molly has outgrown some of her dresses from last year. Many are still fine in how they fit her upper portion, but they are just too short. Heck -- even some of her 2T dresses still fit the top half of her, but just are not acceptable as dresses anymore.

    So, with the fashion right now being those flowing maternity style tops, we have begun coupling too short dresses with blue jeans or capri pants (when the weather gets better). This way, a dress that might have been passed along to someone else is still usable by us for an entire season more than it might have been before, except it has changed from sweet dress to fashionable top!

    And...as an added bonus -- Molly loves it!

    This has worked great with long sleeve cotton dresses from places like Gap and Old Navy when paired up with jeans throughout the cooler weather. And, I just can't wait to match up some of her sleeveless dresses or even a sweet pillow case dress that she has outgrown with some capris or cropped pants for the summer.

    This is also a great tip when you receive hand-me-down dresses from other families that are maybe just a bit too short for your modesty comfort. Use them as cute shirts instead!

    Saving money (and going green by reusing clothes longer!) and looking fashionable...it works for us!

    Saturday, May 10, 2008

    Oh man -- I *love* this apron!


    I like aprons. I really like aprons. I like them even though I always type the word as aprong for whatever reason, and then I have to back up and delete the g.

    I have been wanting a half apron for a long time, but just had never found one that I wanted to pick up. Or, maybe the price wasn't right. Or, maybe the timing wasn't.

    I was thrilled, however, when Kellie (whose blog I really enjoy reading -- go pop over there and say hi!) opened an Etsy shop -- the Laughing Otter, as I had been admiring all of the aprons she seems to whip up all the time. I liked all of them, but really loved all of the half aprons.

    So, I just had to take some time to post about my fabulous apron pictured here (thanks to Kellie for letting me use her pictures), especially since this Monday is National Wear Your Apron Day!

    Kellie's aprons in her shop are super cute, and very unique -- just like her! If you find yourself apron-less this coming Monday, maybe it's worth stopping by her store so that you don't find yourself apron-less next year on National Wear Your Apron Day! (Oh...but stop by soon -- she sold almost all of the aprons she started out her shop with, and only has a couple of new ones in stock.)

    Thanks to Kellie for helping me look all cool and cute when I run out to the mailbox during the middle of the day. And, I would say thanks for saving my blue jeans too, but I seem to have ripped out the left knee on my only two pairs of jeans. But, at least I can say thanks for keeping them from getting stained!



    Friday, May 9, 2008

    Modest Clothing: It's Not Just to Save Our Daughters

    Modest clothing is a topic that comes up often on the "mommy blogs." And, rightfully so. People should be concerned. Personally, I think society should be concerned when I have to be careful about the clothes I am buying my three year old, because there are lots of options that just aren't very modest...at all.

    Seriously -- three years old. What does our society gain from sexualizing three year olds? What does it say about us, as a society as a whole? Because, really, the garment industry is one of supply and demand. Even if we aren't buying these provocative outfits for preschoolers, somebody is. They aren't making these clothes to lose money on them, they are making these clothes because people are buying them.

    The "funny" thing about all of this is that often, only our daughters are mentioned when we discuss this modesty issue. I just read this article, which I thought was very excellent. And, Mary Ellen did mention very briefly the one thing that often comes to my mind when modest clothing and actions comes up -- our sons.

    It is my belief that we need to encourage modest clothing for the girls of our society not only to save and protect them, but also to save and protect the boys of our society. Just as we can lament what it does to the girls of society when a four year old wears short shorts that have "SEXY" printed across the backside, but we need to lament -- what is this doing to the young boys of our society?

    What about the six year old boy just beginning to really be able to read who "learns" that a four year old girl's bottom is "SEXY" because her short shorts say so? What does this constant barrage of images and situations just like this do to that same boy as he grows up? What about when he is 10? 16? 21? Even if we try to teach them differently with our words and actions, what if what he sees out in society is just too much?

    Now, I'm not suggesting that girls need to be covered from head to toe, or dress like pioneers. But, there is a big difference between dressing like that and dressing in short shorts and tight tank tops. Somewhere in there, there has to be a middle ground. (And that middle ground is not a bare midriff, I'm sure.)

    I learned an interesting thing that I just didn't realize about men (most men, I hate to make the generalization of all men) when I read the book For Women Only: What You Need To Know About The Inner Lives of Men -- even when men don't want to look at all of these things that society is throwing at them, there are often times when they just can't help it. I like how the author of that book made a point. She said, "Don't read this sentence," or something like that. Did you read it? You couldn't help it, could you? It was just there. It was there in your face before you knew that you weren't supposed to read it. Just like some Victoria's Secret commercial that pops up while your husband may be watching a TV show that starts flashing barely dressed women before he could even turn his head to not look.

    What happens to our sons in a society like that?

    Even in a holy place like church. What happens there as soon as the nice weather rolls around? Our sons and husbands are going to a sacred place only to still not be safe from the pressures of society.

    Each summer, our priest reminds parishoners in the bulletin that our church *is* air conditioned, and so even though it is warm outside, they will still be comfortable in the church if they dress appropriately for Mass. I am always glad when he reminds people of this, but it also makes me sad that he needs to remind people that halter tops are just not appropriate for Mass.

    I still vividly remember one Mass last summer when Eric just looked disgusted, and was shaking his head. I looked over to see a very lovely young lady -- I would guess around 16 or 17 years old. She was dressed in high heels, a very short skirt, and a top that was a bit more revealing than was appropriate. (Her mother, by the way, was dressed at about the same modesty level as her daughter, sadly.) I realized later that Eric was probably not only disgusted that she was not dressed appropriately, but was also disgusted that, as a man, there is no where to escape these images -- not even at church. How sad.

    And, so I have to say again...we need to save our daughters' modesty and self-image. We need to teach them that their bodies are theirs, not something to show off to the world. And, in doing this, I pray that we can save our sons too.

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