Monday, June 30, 2008

Front Yard Landscaping on the Cheap (Tackle It Tuesday #11)

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We moved into our house five years ago. At that time, there were lots of big bushes in the front landscaping area, as well as a huge fir tree up front. Because we didn't trim back things the way we should have and then also just the very nature of them starting to get kind of woody, we finally decided to tear it all out and start over.


Sounds good, right?


Two years ago, Eric borrow a back hoe from someone (and a dump truck from someone else) and went to town tearing out all of the landscaping. He worked hard to try to remove lots of the rocks in the landscaping bed as well. And, then he covered it with red mulch. (We decided to do all of this after having a $3,000+ estimate on landscaping. Yikes!)


Well, the only problem? It has sat with just the red mulch for two years now. No plants. Just mulch. I liked to pretend it was the simple approach, but we probably weren't fooling anyone.


So...fast forward two years, and then we'll finally get to my tackle this past week.


While Eric was gone, we received a $100 rebate check on the washer and dryer we bought, so I thought, "Why not try to do some landscaping while he's gone as a surprise?"


I was trying to be thrifty, but I still spent an additional $100 on top of the $100 check that I had cashed. But, I figured I shouldn't be too upset having spent $200 on: a dwarf burning bush (got the medium sized one, instead of the smallest one they had), six geraniums (single plants), six large sets of annuals (petunias, salvias, and marigolds), seven hostas, three large cobalt blue pots, three bags of 2 cubic feet of moisture control potting soil, a set of 10 solar powered lights, a soaker hose (for the vegetable garden, since ours went bad), and a $4 molded plastic kiddie pool. Hey...now that I say that all, it doesn't sound too shabby at all!


With a lot of help from my Mom, I worked one whole day last week (including our trip to Menards, and a trip to an urgent care for Molly who got a puncture wound to the foot), and got it all done! (I was also lucky to have a friend from church come by to help with part of it as well.) Of course, it would have all gone much faster if it weren't for all those rocks in the soil under the mulch! Yikes!


Eric was thrilled when he got home from his trip to see the landscaping, so it made all of the work totally worth it!


I forgot to take "before" pictures, but just imagine it all not there, and that's the before pictures. Oh...that and you need to imagine it without such bright red mulch, since Eric then tackled it a little farther this weekend, and he put in some new mulch. Yeah!


So, I'm pretty darn psyched to finally have skipped out on that $3,000+ landscaping and put in a lot of sweat equity instead. By coming up with my own minimalist design that was doable by us, we saved ourselves several thousand dollars! And, of course, all of the small plants (hostas & burning bush) that we put in now will get bigger in time, so the landscaping will just get better and better!


Oh, and we've been getting tons of compliments from neighbors. Although, I suspect they're just really excited to see some plants and not just mulch.






(This is the dwarf burning bush -- it might get as big as six feet tall and six feet wide, so it will eventually fill in all that space it has.)




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Sunday, June 29, 2008

What an honor!


What an honor! I received the Arte y Pico award from someone whose blog I love and who is a constant source of inspiration for me -- thanks so much to Kellie at And She Can't Even Cook (whose amazing Etsy store is, well, um, amazing -- I was just wearing my apron this morning). If you haven't checked out Kellie's blog before, you really should. If tag backs probably weren't annoying, I would totally send this award right back at her!
The "Arte y Pico" award which was created to be given to bloggers who inspire others with their creative energy and talents no matter whether it be in the form of writing, artwork, design, interesting material, or contributions to the blogger community. When a blogger receives this award it is considered a "special honor" and, once presented to you, it is to be passed on to at least 5 other bloggers who meet the criteria.


It's hard to pick five, since I read so many great blogs, but here ya go...
Kelsey at My Sweet Life is just fabulous. Her writing makes me laugh so often, and her photography is just gorgeous. It's not uncommon for me to say, "Hey -- I want to try that" while reading through her blog!
Margaret at Minnesota Mom is such an inspiration! The way that she is raising up her children helps to remind me of things I should be doing too. Plus, she isn't afraid to admit when things don't really go the way that she wanted them to go. Your faithfulness is admirable.
Another inspiration to me as a Catholic mother is Barb at SFO Mom. She is always full of common sense wisdom in her writing, and is also so sweet in her comments to help foster the sense of blogging community. Thanks for being you, Barb!
Happy to Be at Home is a wonderful resource written by three bloggers (Kate, Joy, & Toni) who also each have their own amazing blogs. Their blog is full of great tips and ideas for those of us at home, and most importantly, their blog helps to encourage those of us who are at home how to be *happy* that they are at home. Love your blog -- it's just super!
Kristen's blog, Small Treasures, really is a treasure, in deed! Kristen's outlook on life with a simple and down to earth approach is refreshing. Kristen's attitude is inspirational -- like when she recently decided to learn how to sew, and then has been creating amazing outfit after outfit. Oh, and then add on her amazing photographs (especially of all of the beautiful flowers around her home), and I might have to admit to being a little jealous.

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In Regards to Selling My Calling Card Designs...

Shortly after posting about selling all of my calling card designs, I ended up having some second thoughts, and then removed the listing for selling them.

Since that time, I realized that I'd still be okay with it, but kind of left it at that.

The funny thing is, this week, I have had two different people inquire about buying them. (After I thought I was being so darn quite about them.)

So, I thought it only fair to publically announce that if you are interested in discussing purchasing the calling card designs for reselling them, please feel free to contact me via email. As I said, I have had some interest shown, and, of course, these will only go to one person. So, if you are interested, don't hesitate in dropping me a line.

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Commence Homeschool Freak Out

Today I had to stop by the now former school of the boys. I knew that what did happen might happen if I had to go to the school, but there was no choice -- I had a commitment, so I had to stop by.

And, sure enough -- the class lists were posted. You see, I haven't actually officially told the school that we will be homeschooling next year. Plenty of people know, but I have not yet withdrawn the kids and made a declaration of it.

Heck...I'll go one step farther. I even requested who I wanted them to have as teachers next school year, just in case anything changed and we needed to send them to school. (We can request teachers by submitting our top three choices.)

I saw the lists posted, and I couldn't help but look. And there, I saw that both of the boys ended up with good teachers. (I had been particularly worried about Jack, because they originally were planning to place in him with teachers I didn't want him to have. That's a long story, so I won't get into it.) Alas though, both with good teachers. But, then I was relieved to see that none of Jack's best buddies were in his class. Then, I peeked at Noah's, only to find his very best friend from this year still in his class next year. (They go to a very large school, so it's not uncommon to have someone in your class one year and then never have them in your class again.)

Noah doesn't make friends easily. I suppose because of his Autism, as he gets older, the kids notice his differences more. But, "best friend" likes him just the way he is. And, here I have the opportunity to let them be in class together again, and I'm stopping it.

And, for that matter, here I was standing in the hallway of their nice school. Their school that offers so many opportunities. Their school that they both like (although I must note that they are very excited about homeschooling now).

Commence homeschool freak out.

I had a horrible time keeping my mind on task during my meeting. My mind raced.

Am I making a mistake?

Is this really in their best interest to keep them home?

Should I pick up the school supply lists, in case I break down and send them back to school? (I did, by the way, pick them up on my way out.)

What if the boys hate me later that I took them out of school, even though they are excited right now?

Would God be mad at me if I sent them to school after He seemed to specifically tell me otherwise?

Why do I have to always be so unsure of myself?

Can I just keep my mind on this meeting already?

I think I finally kind of kept my mind on my task, but then as soon as I got home, Eric knew I was upset. I told him about my freak out.

I said, "They got good teachers next year."

Eric said, "You are the best teacher they will ever have."

While I appreciated the compliment, I still felt deflated.

Noah, hearing this (but not knowing why Eric said it) exclaimed, "Yeah Mom! You're gonna be our best teacher ever!" and gave me a hug.

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Friday, June 27, 2008

Erin is the Newest Free Calling Card Download Available


Annabelle was the first free calling card template download, and now it's Erin's turn.
A couple of important notes to remember about the free calling card template downloads here at Many Little Blessings:
*Each design is only available for download for a limited amount of time. Because of this, it might be a good idea to subscribe to this blog's feed so you don't miss out on one of the designs.
*The download is a PSD (Photoshop) file.
*The file shows the card with more white space than is shown here. This is to account for trim room. All text and designs on the file are within the safe area. If you move things around, they might get trimmed off -- so be careful.
*These files are available for download for your personal use only. These are absolutely not to be sold, shared, or distributed in any way. I continue to hold the copyright on all cards.
*All designs have been tweaked from my original designs to be printed at Vista Print, since you can upload the design for a minimal charge, and then get free cards (other than a shipping charge). I don't personally print the cards that I sell in my shop on Vista Print, but I think this is a great inexpensive option.
You can download your free Erin calling card design right here! Enjoy!

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Wednesday, June 25, 2008

13 Things We've Done While My Husband Has Been Gone (Thursday Thirteen #19)



13 Things We've Done While My Husband Has Been Gone


Eric rarely has to travel for work (maybe just a couple of times a year), so it's not normal for us to have him gone overnight. But, this week saw him taking his longest business trip ever, and he was gone for three days.

We usually just sit around the house thinking about Daddy being gone, but this time, I decided that maybe it was better to keep myself and the kids busy. So, here are 13 things we (or me by myself) have done over the last three days.


1. Cashed our $100 rebate check from buying our washer and dryer (from when we redecorated our laundry room).

2. Took that money, plus another $100, and bought enough stuff to finally landscape our front yard. This was an extensive trip at Menards, though it did involve some play time for the kids on the play yard stuff they have set up to play on. (The kids pretended they were in the rain forest on the way home, since there were plants all around them.)

3. Had help from my Mom (and then for a bit from someone from church) to do the landscaping.

4. Took Molly to the Urgent Care when she got a puncture wound to the foot during #3. (We think it was on some sharp mulch.)

5. Visited the library to check out books and DVDs. Each of the kids also got a coupon for a free kids meal at Chick-Fil-A for meeting their summer reading goal already.

6. Went to see Kung Fu Panda -- believe it or not, this was only the second movie Noah has seen in a theater (he'll be nine next month). It was the first theater movie for Jack (almost 7) and Molly (3 1/2). (We had a $20 movie certificate from Eric's work, so the tickets only cost us $4.75. Concessions, however, cost us $24!)

7. Went to Chick-Fil-A after the movie and used our free meal certificates. Then we played on the play equipment, but left after only about 10 minutes, since there were about 14 kids playing, and all but three (my kids!) were completely unsupervised.

8. Tackled the mess that was my kitchen counter after having spent a long weekend in Chicago for Eric's sister's wedding.

9. Went to Kroger to pick up some groceries. This was after landscaping all day, and I was too exhausted to even think about dragging the kids in to Walmart. Proof of this? I willingly bought toliet paper AND laundry detergent at Kroger's high prices.

10. Bought a $4 kiddie pool. We set it up and let the kids play in it, as well as run through our totally cool new sprinkler. (We *all* got very wet, especially when kids started picking up some of the spray nozzle thingees and spraying each other -- and me!)

11. Had a county inspection of our brand new screened in porch. It passed, and then we got the bill for it in the mail today. (Yeah, I know, my regular readers, I didn't even tell you guys that we were getting a screened in porch. I'll share pictures later!)

12. Had an exterminator come out to spray for carpenter bees and flying ants (that showed up after we started our screened in porch construction).

13. Cleaned up like crazy in the last 2 hours before Daddy showed up at home!

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Grandpa's Tractor (Wordless Wednesday #9)


Okay, not *my* grandpa, but it does belong to a farmer I know and it's his grandpa's tractor.


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Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Consumable Gifts for the Holidays (WFMW)


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This is a post that I wrote for an old blog that I don't have any more, but it's about our gift giving last year for Christmas. Sure...you may say, "Why post this in June?" Well...it's because Christmas is just six months away, darn it. And, I have found that the best way to have a stress free holiday is to plan early.

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I am excited this year to try to give (mostly) everyone consumable gifts! (Consumable as in "able to be used up," not just able to be eaten.) An exception to this "rule" is our kids, who will each be getting just four gifts (one from Santa, three from us) plus stocking stuffers. Oh, and then I did find a beautiful handmade prayer shawl for one of my Grandmothers, as well as an electric razor for my husband (his request). Oh...okay, one more, I am giving handcrafted pocket rosaries to CCD teachers. So, at least several of the non-consumable gifts are handcrafted.

Otherwise, my gifts are consumable this year, and I'm really excited about it.
A few people will be getting restaurant gift cards. Always yummy and useful, as long as you know what restaurants your receiver actually likes. Seriously -- this is important. My husband and I have received a few different restaurant gift certificates to places we just don't go. We don't really get a chance to go out on dates, and so we prefer something to somewhere family friendly.

Another example is my grandparents. They have just about everything a person could need. But, what did I get them? $40 worth of McDonalds gift certificates! They go there each morning for coffee and something breakfast sandwiches, so I knew they would use them.

For school teachers, I am planning to put together handmade blank cards -- either photo note cards or dry embossed cards. (I'm leaning toward the photo note cards, since people like them and they will be quicker than hand embossing cards.)

Each of my siblings families are receiving (or have already) a basket of goodies. Included in these goodies are: a holiday snack mix, pretzel rods that are half dipped in chocolate and decorated with sprinkles, cherry chip cake dippers, mint thins (a faux Thin Mint), a decorated plate (purchased at Goodwill and then decorated by me), a lovely wooden Christmas ornament (purchased at the craft show I was just at a couple weeks ago), a mini loaf of bread (either pumpkin or lemon poppy seed), a set of four photo note cards with envelopes, two jumbo cupcakes with frosting (both from scratch) in the style of the Fat Daddy Bake Shop on Etsy -- all put into a bushel basket that I got 40% off at Michaels.

Whew!

Let me tell you -- the baskets are full. (Oh...and the plates did not fit inside the baskets.) We are also giving these baskets to a few other friends and relatives as well. These are best put together in groups. For instance, I just did up five of them for a Christmas celebration that we did at Thankgiving.

I have been so pleased with the reactions I have gotten already to all of the consumable gifts this year (since, as I said, we have already celebrated Christmas with one portion of my family this past week). But, really -- I just love that I think people know that I have put a lot of love and thought into their gifts. And, to me, that is one of the best parts of gift giving!

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Monday, June 23, 2008

Pear Budget Giveaway

I have heard a lot about Pear Budget, but hadn't tried it out until just today (there's a free trial!). It's really great, and I think I just may be switching over to it from my current spreadsheet approach.

Anyway, on simple mom, there is a great giveaway to check out if you would like to use Pear Budget for all your budgeting needs!

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Saturday, June 21, 2008

1930's Follow Up: My husband took the test

So, the test I just posted about also has an option for what kind of 1930's husband you are. Eric took the test (well, he was over my shoulder and I did the clicking). We figured he might score badly because he is such a great helper around the house, etc. We figured that perhaps that would bring down the score of a 1930's husband. Apparently quite the opposite!

141

As a 1930s husband, I am
Very Superior

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I don't know that I buy this, but here's my 1930s wife score

Saw this tiest on Mandy's blog, and just had to give it a try...

72

As a 1930s wife, I am
Superior

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It makes me sad to think about it...

But, I have come to realize I'm getting older.

I don't actually begrudge myself getting older. And, while I am a bit wistful while realizing that each of my little babies is no longer a little baby, it also isn't what makes me sad.

It is the realization that my grandparents and great aunts and uncles are getting older.

I was around 17 years old when the first of my close relatives passed away -- my paternal grandfather. Before that, although I had already bitterly dealt with the passing due to a car accident of several young men from my high school, I hadn't had to have a relative that I knew pass away.

As crazy as it sounds then, I didn't really have to deal with any more close relatives passing away from a long time after that. But, then, it started happening. In the last ten years (or maybe even less), Eric and I have lost several of our great aunts and uncles. In 2007, it hit even one generation closer, and I lost one of my aunts (my Dad's older sister). And, this April, Eric's Grandmom passed away -- the first of one of our grandparents to pass away since I was 17.

Last week, we again found ourselves with a loss. My Great Aunt Phyllis passed away (my maternal grandmother's sister). I went with my parents to her funeral this past Monday, and I suspect that there was hardly a dry eye in the house, particularly while both Amazing Grace and I'll Fly Away were sung.

It is with sadness that I say good bye to Aunt Sis. And, it is with extra sadness that I know that this is not nearly the last time we'll be needing to say goodbye to this generation.

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Friday, June 20, 2008

Ferris Bueller: Intense Action Movie

It's amazing what someone with some time on their hands (a lot of time on their hands, apparently) can do with some music and editing.

(This is about 4 1/2 minutes long, and it does contain one curse word. This is all clips from the original movie.)



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Thursday, June 19, 2008

13 Things We're Doing To Live a Little Greener (TT #18)



Thirteen Things We're Doing To Live a Little Greener

If you read my list last week of 13 Things We're Doing to Try to Save a Little Money, you'll see some overlap on these lists. Isn't it funny how sometimes living a life that is greener also saves money?


1. We started a composting bin. (We made our own composting bin from a trash can to save some money.)

2. We have a garden to grow some of our own produce.

3. When we got our economic stimulus check, we used it all to redo our laundry room. The vast expense of this was to get rid of our energy inefficient laundry appliance, and we bought brand new energy star efficient laundry appliances. (I didn't realize how very inefficient they were until I started doing laundry in the new machines. Drying happens SO much faster now, and I can see that we are using so much less water and soap when washing.)

4. We have been trying to keep the thermostat set a little higher this summer so far. I can remember when we would keep the A/C set at 73 all summer long. This year, we haven't set it lower than 74, but sometimes as high as 77. (Sorry -- I saw someone saying 80 not too long ago, and I just can't do that.)

5. We write most family notes to one another (like phone messages, etc.) on a dry erase board instead of using post-it notes or paper. (If we use paper, we try to use scrap paper.)

6. We buy a lot of our clothes second hand instead of buying brand new. (We actually bought a bunch of play dress up clothes for our kids second hand too!)

7. We use re-usable shopping bags when shopping.

8. We empty our dehumdifier onto our trees or vegetable garden when it is full, instead of just tossing down the drain.

9. We recycle through our trash company. Of course, I remember when it paid money to recycle, but we pay an extra $5.00/month to be able to do it. Oh well...it's worth it!

10. We try (the emphasis is on "try") to eat lots of meals at home. Have you seen the amount of trash that comes from a family of five running through a drive through? It's just crazy!

11. My laptop and external hard drive are on a power strip. At night, when I turn it all off, I am able to really turn it *completely* off by switching off the power strip.

12. We try to borrow as many things from the library (and Netflix) as we can, rather than to fill our house with more books, DVDs, and CDs. Don't get me wrong -- we love all those things, but we know we need to not just have tons of those sitting around.

13. I love buying re-purposed things, especially on Etsy! The purse I use it re-purposed from an old skirt! I get comments on it all the time! And I got these fabulous magnets that were made from Starbucks lids.

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Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Monthly Menu Planning (WFMW)


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Menu planning is really wonderful way to help stretch your budget, as well as hopefully saving some sanity so that you aren't always scrambling around at 5:15 pm thinking, "What are we having for dinner?"

Menu planning works for lots of families -- but what works best for us is monthly menu planning.

For many years now, my huband has just been paid once a month. That was a huge adjustment for us, and I have to admit that I probably still wouldn't be use to it, but thanks to my working a few hours a week (and being paid weekly), it helps us out. When Eric moved to be paid only once a month, we did realize, however, that what would work for us was to plan our menus an entire month at a time.

To do this, I do the majority of my shopping all at once, after planning out about 32 meals or so (and then figuring in things for breakfasts, lunches, and snacks), I head out for that one major trip. I do, however, make smaller trips to the grocery store throughout the month for things like milk, bread, and produce.

When I plan our meals, I make sure to plan some things that will throw together easily and other things that may take longer.

After I have my large list, I work from that to plan exactly what we'll have each week. (This also helps to occasionally add in things that go on sale, or perhaps I put off actually buying steak until they go on sale at Kroger, and then put in my steak meals after that point in the month.)

Here is an example of what is on our latest monthly list (sometimes there is a notation behind it that indicates we'll have it more than once in the month):

Teriyaki Chicken (x 2)
Teriyaki Steak Kabobs (x 2)
BBQ Pork Sandwiches
Spaghetti (x 2)
Biscuits and Sausage Gravy
Spanish Rice
Cheesy Potato Soup
Corn Chowder (x 2)
Turkey Breast
Spinach and Egg Fettucini with Chicken
Beans and Cornbread
Salads with Chicken, Hardboiled Eggs, and Bacon (we had this tonight -- we picked the lettuce and spinach right out of our garden just before dinner, and then I made artisan bread this afternoon as a side)
Club Quesadillas
Honey Mustard Ham Sandwiches
Pancakes (x 2)
Macaroni and Cheese with Tuna
Mushroom Cavatappi
Grill Out (one time chicken, one time burgers)
Eggs, Toast, and Bacon
Steak (we cut it up, so Eric and I shared a steak), Pioneer Woman's Crash Potatoes, & Mushrooms
Roast
Steak Stir Fry with Rice
Quick Chicken Teriyaki (from Kraft.com)
Beef Noodle Bowls (ditto from above)
Creamy Rice, Chicken, & Spinach Dinner (yep...Kraft.com again)
Chili Cheese Hot Dogs
Steak Soft Tacos
Meatloaf

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The Kitchen Madonna (Wordless Wednesday #8)

(An old statue from a basement kitchen at my church)


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Friday, June 13, 2008

Readers' Questions: My Vegetable Garden

Rather than to try to answer a lot of questions/comments within the comment section, I thought I would put together some of the questions that were asked of me (or comments that I thought I needed to speak to) about our garden. I am in absolutely no way a garden expert. Seriously. So, as they say, your mileage may vary. These are just the answers as they pertain to me and my vegetable garden.


Why did you put your lettuce in a pot instead of in your garden?

I did this for space purposes only, originally. However, the lettuce is doing really well in the pots, so I think that I plan to continue planting my lettuce in pots in the future. Ditto that to spinach as well. One of the reasons I like it is that, with my bunny-filled yard, I can put the pots all up on a small picnic table. Another reason that I think this has been successful is that we used moisture-control potting soil. Lettuce likes its soil to be moist, and this has really helped that.

When do you start planting?

I always plant right around the day that I can start for our region. For us, that's May 15th. The first year we did our garden, we probably didn't plant until May 22nd. The second year, we did it right on May 15th. And, this year, we did it on May 14th.

If you don't know the recommended planting date for your area, be sure to check it out before you start a garden. But, likewise, as long as you aren't way, way past it, why not try to plant a little something, if you should decide you want to start a garden late.

Do you buy small plants or seeds?

Since we're homeschooling now, I do plan to try to do some things from seeds next year. I figure it will be a good project for us, and it will be cheaper. In the last four years though (that's how long we've been gardening), we've always used starter plants from either Walmart or a local greenhouse. It is more money to buy starter plants, but it is a lot easier. I'll try to chronical our attempts with seeds next year.

I would love to have a garden, but I hate pulling weeds.

Me too! In fact, my garden doesn't get weeded too often. What has been really helpful for us is that we lay down weed fabric in the garden before planting, and then also put down something like straw or mulch. This really cuts down dramatically on weeds. If you are letting weeds hold you back from gardening, try weed fabric instead of just throwing in the towel. (Or, trowel, as the case may be.)

I have such a black thumb, I kill all plants, so I can't have a garden.

First off, I have killed just about every house plant I've ever had. I just get distracted, and I forget to water them. So, take that for what it's worth.

I have found that plants actually in the garden (as opposed to garden plants in pots) are a lot more forgiving than some house plants. Yes, it *is* helpful to remember to water your garden (we use a soaker hose, so all we have to do is turn on the water spiggot and walk away -- it's better for us, the environment, and the garden). But, the nice thing is that it also naturally gets watered every time it rains.

Now, potted vegetable plants are a little less forgiving than those in the ground. So, even if you have had a potted vegetable plant fail in the past, it's still worth giving it a try in the ground. Or, try a raised bed or kiddie pool garden!

Here is my best tip for remembering to water your garden (whether in pots or the ground) -- one of the gadgets I have on my iGoogle homepage is a "Days Since" counter. I just update it every time I water, and then I know if it's been a couple of days, then I probably need to just go out and do it. I do reset it, however, when it rains and count that as me watering it. (On a side note, I also use this counter to remind me to rotate the composter, add salt to the water softner, change the furnace filter, etc. -- love it!)

It all looks so great, can you send me some?

Nope, sorry! But, I hope that I have made you feel like you really can grow your own garden. We started out our garden with just an 8x8 plot, and I'm a lazy plant killer. If I can do it, you can too!

Any tips on gardening?

Other than those I have already given, I would say just try to have fun with it. Here is a list of what we have planted this year (except we also have spinach, which I planted in pots after making that list), but my biggest advice is that if it is your first year with a garden, just pick out things that you think you would like to try. You will learn a lot when you do this.

For instance, we tried growing eggplant, and just couldn't get it to grow. Since I realized that we wouldn't use the eggplant anyway (my Mom wanted it), I knew I didn't want to try to grow it again.

I also learned things like the fact that I need to be very careful and only buy leaf lettuce varities, not head lettuce. (Oh...and growing broccoli is a waste of my time.)

Sure, you can save a lot of money gardening, and it's good for your family and the environment. But, remember to have fun doing it.

Remember to take time to marvel at God's creation.

And, remember to occasionally remind yourself how much you rock when you make a salad where you grew all/most of the components!

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Thirteen Ways We're Trying to Save Money (TT #17)





Thirteen Ways We're Trying to Save Money
Some of these are just small ways, and some of them are kind of unconventional ways to "save" money, but here goes the list...


1. We have gone to mostly having our thermostat set at 75 degrees for the air conditioning. We normally were keeping it at 72 or 73 last year.

2. We started giving our boys each an allowance of half their age per week. (So, the six year old gets $3.00.) After starting that, they pretty much buy their own toys/games that they really want. It has given them a whole new perspective on what they *really* want, and it saves us because we tended to be pushovers about buying things for them before they had their own money.

3. We have invested money over the previous two years in putting together a raised bed garden, and then putting an addition onto it. This year, our only money spent was to buy the vegetables, some new fencing, and pots/potting soil for a few things. Still -- all that being said, we have had an abundance of fresh vegetables (and strawberries) in years past. Already this year, we have had tons of lettuce, spinach, and strawberries. By the end of the summer, we will have grown a whole lot more food for the money, plus we can feel good about having grown our own food.

4. Theoretically, keeping track of a budget should save us some money. I think that it does help to see it in "print" when we are spendng too much in one area.

5. Eric and I tend to give each other things for holidays that involve gifts that we really would have went out to buy anyway. For example, he and the kids had the garden plants be my Mother's Day present. We would have bought them anyway, of course. Likewise, we'll be buying a grill that will be for "Father's Day," but we would have bought it anyway.

6. Speaking of the garden one more time, sometimes a garden creates an overabundance of items. So, the last couple of years, we have saved money in buying things for the garden (additions, as well as plants, etc.) by having my parents pay for half of those expenses. In return, we provide them with all the veggies they want. This is good for us because it saves us money, and good because we might end up having some things go to waste otherwise.

7. Meal planning saves a lot of money over eating meals out often, or even over stopping at the grocery store several times a week! It helps us, though we admittedly still eat too much from out.

8. Oh, and as far as the grocery store goes, I try to send Eric when I have only a couple of things to buy. Whereas I end up picking up lots of extras when I run to the grocery store, Eric is more apt to buy exactly what I have asked for (if he can find it!), and nothing else.

9. We tend to buy a lot of our clothes (for us and for the kids) second hand. As the kids get older, it might be a little harder, but right now, we have an excellent consignment sale twice a year in the area that I go to, as well as a Once Upon a Child. We also have a nice second hand shop for women in the area, and then Eric has done well a couple of times at Goodwill for clothes for work. We still, of course, buy new clothes, but it has saved us a lot in what we haven't had to buy new.

10. We used to buy tons of books. I am a sucker for books, and so is Eric. We now live not too far from a very nice library (from which we can also request movies through inter-branch loan), and we definitely utilize it a lot! Not only does it save us from buying books, but we also tend to borrow about five kids DVDs every time we go. Occasionally, we still find books that we love and want to buy (usually after we have rented them, to be sure, first) and sometimes the kids fall in love with a movie that we have borrowed, and so we buy it. But, the number of books and movies we actually buy now is only a small portion of what we used to buy.

11. We spend about $10 per month to be members of Netflix with their one movie out at a time plan (unlimited per month). We only get movies for us (since we get movies for the kids through the library), and since turn around time has us having a new movie in our hands just about three days after mailing the last one in, it's plenty for us to have only one movie at a time. We used to be HORRIBLE with late fees at the rental place, so Netflix really has saved us a lot of money. Now we just pay for movies that we want to have, not late fees because we couldn't be bothered to take it back.

12. I own an iPod because I am a huge music lover. I definitely feel it saves me money too, because I used to go out and buy all kinds of CDs. If I really loved something, I went out and bought the CD if we had some extra money, even if I only loved a song or two on the CD. Now, instead of buying that $15 CD for two songs, I pay about $1.98 on iTunes and just buy those two songs.

13. We own both a minivan and a compact car. We cannot fit all of our family in the compact car at this time, since two kids are still in car seats/booster seats. However, because the compact car gets better gas mileage, it has been a decision on our part to just figure out logistics when needed and save money over having two larger vehicles. We use the compact car for when each of us goes to work (since I only work a few hours a week, and only tend to do that when Eric is home). It would be a lot easier for us if we had two vehicles that were larger, but it saves us a lot of money to have the economy car. (Perhaps, it would save us even more money if we hadn't just had to spend $400.00 to replace the starter on it this week, but what can you do? It's 9 years old, so those kinds of things happening are expected, but since they rarely happen, it's still a savings to keep the vehicle.)


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Tuesday, June 10, 2008

The Garden (Wordless Wednesday)

Okay, a quick couple of words -- the potted veggies haven't normally been sitting like this, but we needed to temporarily relocate them, so we shoved them all on this little picnic table and tied them on, to make sure they didn't get knocked over.








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WFMW: Fun and Easy Learning Activities







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A few hours per week, I work as a developmental therapist (I've heard some people call it "play" therapy) through my state's Early Intervention services.

One thing I like to do is to leave parents with ideas of follow up activities or just general learning activities to do with their kids (under age three). I felt like I hit the jackpot when I found a site that had all kinds of fun handouts with learning activities.

They have a section of handouts (all pdf files) for ages birth through three, and then a section of handouts for preschoolers. (You'll have to scroll down on each of the pages to get to the link for the pdf.)

This is a great resource of fun learning activities, and so I had to pass it along. It definitely works for me!

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